Ups & downs

Tami told me that we must learn to treasure what we have. After reading D blog.... tami felt that we must learn to fight lesser and learn to love & treasure each other even more than b4. Our r/s is full of ups & downs....I tried very hard to in put in our r/s...but, we are still clashing......."When one doesn't give in anymore ..that's it." If being in a r/s is soooooo tiring....when gets involve in the first place??????????